Approaching a girl you don't see often?!

third_string · March 15, 2017, 2:21am

Re: Approaching a girl you don’t see often?!

This is a difficult situation since it’s college and you both have totally different majors. Campus directory can tell you which dorm she lives in right? If you go to a huge University with so many students, it’s super hard to find out anything about her. The only thing I can think of is when you did see her the 2 or 3 times, were her friends any that you could talk to to tell that you would really like to get to know their friend?

I don’t even know how people get girlfriends and boyfriends in college. How did they find the time or even if they did, universities are so huge. Bumping into someone you hardly know, it’s close to impossible.

Directly approaching her, especially if she is shy and only hangs out with girls might make her nervous. On Facebook, if you recognize her friends you could ask them if she’s attending any college events, if she is, then find some time to go and make the first move and get to know her. Even still, it’s so difficult to talk with the opposite gender in our culture. If you do approach her, then people gossip or watch and then she might become really self conscious.

I don’t know, wait for the seasoned members to give you some tips.

You’re right, then odds of seeing her again are really slim and even if I do know her dorm, I wouldn’t just walk there to try to run into her. That’s creepy. I don’t think she’d have issues talking with guys, I’ve seen how she dresses and some of her pics on social media and she doesn’t seem like a conservative girl though she still follows Pakistani culture. We don’t have any friends in common,

I liked how she looked and the way she spoke, I mean that may sound like I’m objectifying a girl but I don’t know anything else about her. I don’t think she’s completely out of my league, I think I got a shot, even if it’s a long shot. I just need to find a way to see her again and they think of how to approach her.