APPOINTMENT OF A WOMAN TO CONDUCT MUSLIM MARRIAGES . GREAT NEWS FOR WOMEN'S RIGHTS

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Ayan Hirsi Ali?

The woman who has called the Prophet Muhammad a "pervert," a "pedophile," and a "tyrant." Who has denounced Islam as a "backwards religion" and "the new fascism." Who openly states that she has renounced Islam...and that she believes that Islam as a whole "must be defeated." She's your ideal role model for Muslim women???

Either youre not Muslim, or youre an idiot, or youre incredibly poorly informed. Or possibly all of the above.

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Interesting.... will be good if you can kindly provide with the reference of this article.

There are few things quite interesting here to be noted in your thread.

(1) The title of thread is *"APPOINTMENT OF A WOMAN TO CONDUCT MUSLIM MARRIAGES . GREAT NEWS FOR WOMEN'S RIGHTS" **and then you go on saying licensed to act as Muazzan ?? Do you know what is job of Muazzan is ? Muazzan is a person who say Adhan and not conduct **MUSLIM MARRIAGES. *
(2) Then apparently an idiot man completely reject the idea. Why ? and what made him to be called "IDIOT". In the present world where you have freedom of expression if that man rejected the idea he has every right in the world to do that. No body has the right to call him idiot becuase of his/her views. The text that followed is completely irrelevant.
(3) Now the other man's comments saying women can not do this job because she will take other women's side ......... what are you trying to say here ??? How is MUAZZAN suppose to take side of another women while conducting muslim marrige ????

Looks like who ever wrote this MASTER piece should have done some more research to sound it more fiction less.

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Irshad Manji is a lesbian -

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Just another extremeist foaming at the mouth. thats all.

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Ub,

Why do hundreds and millions of Muslimahs cover their head, on their own accord?
Why do millions of Alimahs exist in this world?
Why do Imams in the masjid teach us about treating out women like queens and our Pakistani culture teaches us otherwise?

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It was acceptable in all faiths when a girl had her menstrual cycle for the first time even if she was as young as nine to marry them off. Society has evolved from this heinous practice. Today because society has evolved it is not necessary to marry a girl to a man in his forties. This is pedophilia whether by marriage or not. SHe never said Islam must be defeated , she said the mysoginistic principles of marrying girls off to men should be defeated and many practices societies condoned against women back then are by todays standards corrupt and awful. SOciety has evolved and so must religion. She has knowledge and experience and indepth understanding of Islam. She wrote of her own experiences in her faith and realized much which was taught to her has no place in todays society. She escaped from a marriage she was forced to have with an old man. She has experienced the mysoginistic principles that men have used against women by using the Islamic faith unappropriately to control a woman's life.

If these two women help just one woman to find her own path then they are truly heros. Men who want to control women and dominate their life have a hard time understanding and appreciating Hirsi Ali and Irshad Manji. But I guess this is understandable.

Is it backwards , Islam has been used to perpetrate a backward society . Afghanistan is a perfect example of how Islam misused and followed by 1400 years ago mentality has retarded the growth of education, art , music , literature. When Islam is corrupted and used corruptedly by mullahs, clerics and men as it has been done in Sudan, Nigeria and Afghanistan to name a few countries then the critique of 'backwardness' is very much correct and proven as a truth. And as for the new fascism much that has been done within under Islamic rule to people in Afghanistan is nothing short of FACISM. Christians promoted facism in WWII , is was christian facism. The book burning in Afghanistan, the removal of girls and banning them from school, etc in afghanistan is a clear example of facism. To deny this is not to be critically objective but blind ignorance continuing the facist perpretation by mullahs, clerics and their supporters.

She simple did not state Islam as a whole must be defeated, what she conveyed was Islam as a whole needs to be revamped as Christianity did. Do you really believe Christianity of middle ages is applicable to todays society? NOT AT ALL. Therefore, like all dogma which is not absolute since it has man's interference must be revisited to enusre it has not degenerated as has specifically in Afghanistan. Religion has very much been a tool by the powerful and influential through out history. ANd the people who had the power were men therefore , under critical analysis religion is very patriarchal , a proponent for male domination while in all three faiths, jewish, christian and Islamic women have had secondary roles. Orthodox , fundamentalist have damaged society. Strife for enligtenment is never easy but as we have witnessed in the younger generation change will occur.

An interesting fact about Afghanistan is that women had absolute equality under soviet influence. In the entire existence of that region women a brief period of freedom and equality only when the soviets were in Afghanistan. And now without the soviets it will be again.

And yes , Irshad Manji and Hirsi ALi are available to the Afghani women. The word is spreading...............be

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I recall reading an article on the internet about a young teenage girl in canada recently who did not want to wear the headscarf. Her father choked her to death after her brother went to find her and bring her home. Therefore, how many of the millions of muslimahs cover their head of their own accord? Perhaps fear of the men in their family is the reason why a greater percentage to do. WOmen are to be treated not like queens but as equals. Pakistani culture had a hard fight last year when women fought against the law which punished them when they were raped while the rapist escaped penality. These are all baby steps for women's rights but be aware brother the steps will continue to grow. If Pkistani cultere teaches men to treat women with respect how is it the Pakistani goverment was the first to recognize TaLIBAN RULE and yet this Taliban goverment persecuted and denegrated women in the name of Islam? Why is Ok for a girl in Pakistan to attend University but not under Taliban rule? How can you reconcile both countries Islamic practices as being fare to women and treating women as equals with respect when in each country Islam has failed women to a very detrimental and sacriligious existence.

How is it my father recognizes Islam needs to change its image and the dogma it pursues by men who use it against women's rights and independence?

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I am sharing. and the reason I call him an idiot was because he wanted to find a religious reason to abolish the woman’s right. Seems like if Islam is good for women then why use it go against a woman’s appointment? is the sentiment.

Link:
Middle East Online

Some happy, some not, as Egypt appoints first woman able to conduct Muslim marriages. week of Egypt’s first woman able to conduct Muslim marriages has sparked **.**www.middle-east-online.com/english/?id=24553 -

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Well, as far as Islam is concerned, I think the best role models for you would be Pamela Anderson and Heidi Fleiss the porn star…For both Ayan Hirsi Ali and Irshad Manji to me stand on the same pedestal…

As for role models for Muslim specifically is concerned who are more concerned about Islam are Bibi Fatima :razi:, Bibi Ayesha :razi: and all the Muslim women who stood up against the world for their faith…Not these sellouts and cheap tabloid fodder like Irshad Manji or Hirsi…

Your role models in Islam go for about 30 bucks a pop on the street corners of New York and LA…Follow them and bless them…

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A woman facing jail in Iran for speaking out against the regime of President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad has denounced the country's Islamic revolution for "destroying a generation" of Iranians.
Parvin Ardalan, 41, said women and religious and cultural minorities faced discrimination under the hard-line policies adopted by Tehran after the mullahs seized power in 1979.
Miss Ardalan is due to fly to Stockholm this week to receive the Olof Palme Prize for outstanding achievement, which has previously been awarded to Kofi Annan, the former United Nations secretary general, and Aung San Suu Kyi, the Burmese pro-democracy opposition leader.
Her campaign to secure equal rights for women was gathering pace, despite the efforts of the authorities to prevent her and her fellow campaigners from speaking out.
"I am from the destroyed generation of the revolution," she said. "I always ask myself what happened that within a few months it was suddenly bad for me to ride a bicycle as a girl. I was thrown out of school for not wanting to wear a headscarf."

mISS Ardalan, one of the founders of a campaign to secure a million signatures in support of equality for Iranian women, was sentenced to three years in jail last April, accused of threatening national security - a serious charge in a society where a number of dissidents have recently died in custody. She is appealing against the decision.

In Tehran last week, people attacked officials attempting to arrest young women for wearing colourful clothing.
A crowd of about 2,000 started fighting with the officials, who had to flee. Two police officers were badly beaten in the incident as the crowd chanted: "We don't want the Islamic republic."

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c - Every other forum that I know of allows poster the ability to completely delete your messages no matter how old (as if they were never posted), which this forum, for whatever reason, doesn't.

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More CNN, ?? uh, what ...... maybe the only source for many but do try middle eastern newspapers, they are available on the net and offered in several languages.

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“Muhammad is, seen by our Western standards, a pervert”
January 2003, Trouw

“Measured by our western standards, Muhammad is… a tyrant. He is against freedom of expression. If you don’t do as he says, you will be punished. It makes me think of all those megalomaniacs in the Middle East: Bin Laden, Khomeini, Saddam. Do you think it strange that there is a Saddam Hussein? Muhammad is his example. Muhammad is an example for all Muslim men. Do you think it strange that so many Muslim men are violent?”
January 2003, Trouw

"Reason: Should we acknowledge that organized religion has sometimes sparked precisely the kinds of emancipation movements that could lift Islam into modern times? Slavery in the United States ended in part because of opposition by prominent church members and the communities they galvanized. The Polish Catholic Church helped defeat the Jaruzelski puppet regime. Do you think Islam could bring about similar social and political changes?
Hirsi Ali:*** Only if Islam is defeated. Because right now, the political side of Islam, the power-hungry expansionist side of Islam, has become superior to the Sufis and the Ismailis and the peace-seeking Muslims.
Reason: Don’t you mean defeating radical Islam?
Hirsi Ali: No. Islam, period. Once it’s defeated, it can mutate into something peaceful. It’s very difficult to even talk about peace now. They’re not interested in peace.
Reason: We have to crush the world’s 1.5 billion Muslims under our boot? In concrete terms, what does that mean, “defeat Islam”?
Hirsi Ali:
I think that we are at war with Islam. And there’s no middle ground in wars. Islam can be defeated in many ways. ***For starters, you stop the spread of the ideology itself; at present, there are native Westerners converting to Islam, and they’re the most fanatical sometimes. There is infiltration of Islam in the schools and universities of the West. You stop that. You stop the symbol burning and the effigy burning, and you look them in the eye and flex your muscles and you say, “This is a warning. We won’t accept this anymore.” There comes a moment when you crush your enemy.
Reason: Militarily?
Hirsi Ali: In all forms, and if you don’t do that, then you have to live with the consequence of being crushed."

Again, either you’re not Muslim, or you know nothing about Ayaan Hirsi Ali, or you’re just an idiot. There’s no way any well-wisher of Islam & Muslims would consider this woman a role-model…

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I think you have a problem.

You have seen false interpretation of Islam as true Islam... (which millions of muslims practice)

Vast majority of muslims:

Do not mary their daughters to older men.
Do not force women into something they do not like.
Do not condone older ways of life as it existed over 1400 years ago.
Respect and cherish women as being the partners in their lives.
Grow family together, men and women alike.
Never force a woman to wear hijab etc.
Men work and women run household, but free to go to school, colleges, work, be a doctor, nurse, enginner, social worker, teacher, politician, banker or whatever.
Reject any form of torture against a human being.
etc. etc. etc.

You seem to be an extremist, hateful and too sensitive and yet call others names.

My advice: Please open your eyes and look around you or meet muslim family members instead of being a keyboard jockey.

There are so many 'weaknesses' in religions other than Islam which suppressed, tortured and humiliated women over the periods of centuries.

You seem to be comparing modern life style (not religions) with older social ways in Islamic era. Not fair.

Islam came to rescue women from being suppressed and broke illogical, insensible and humiliating practices against women.

Along the way, several so called Aalims added their ow inerpretations in to Islam. Not the fault of Islam or vast majority of muslims who follow religion based on its core values and respect for all mankind.

Again it may not be your fault as you have not seen or experienced Islam as it was brought after Moses (AS), Christ (AS), by Muhammad (PBUH).

BTW: Just because you perform acts on your own does not mean people should agree with you or your version of islam. Nor you have any obligation to agree with me. You will answer to Allah and so will others in privacy.

And lastly for extremist feminists: God, Allah, Bhagwan is male figure...........go figure! :-)

Oops, did I touch any sensitive nerve of someone?

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more of a religion topic.

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Another blow for MULLA, as he not have to compete with other mullas ( by dreating sects in order to keep his ROZI-ROTI ( here rozi is in urdu language) ).

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I will probably get alot of criticism for what I am bout to say but nevertheless I feel it is true.

There is a reason why men have been created stronger both physically and mentally than women. There are certain things men are allowed to do which women cannot in Islam. For example, a woman must pray behind the man, 2 female witnesses equal a male witness, etc.

Allah has done all this for a reason. After all, noone is a greater planner than Allah (SWT) himself. By saying that there is now a woman who can perform nikkah in no way means things are getting better or that we are being granted more "freedom." Yes I am a woman myself but in no way does it make me happy knowing this. In fact, it makes me feel sad knowing that women are not content enough with the role Islam has provided for them. For what reason do these women feel the need to go out and stand shoulder to shoulder with men? Yes, some of us live in the Western world and that is something we are required to do on a daily basis, but once we go home and pray or enter that mosque, it is behind the curtain, behind the men we pray, not shoulder to shoulder with them. Let's not forget out religous roots.

In the Quran, and I will cite the ayah for whomever is interested, it says that the time will come when in Islam people think they are doing good when in fact it is causing destruction. On Youtube the other day, me and my brother were watching women leading prayers, giving khutbas and shaking hands with men in the mosque as if it were something to be proud about. When Allah has commanded something, why do we insist on changing it? Why do women still insist on being equal to men?

Islam is a religion of moderation and in no way does it make women to be inferior to men. So the lady can perform nikkah and get people married, but what will she answer to Allah?

Just my 2 cents, but questions and comments are most welcome.

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:biggthumb pat on the back

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Naouzubillah.. FORGET following her as a role model, as a Muslimah AND a female, I would rather watch this Hirsi Ali be hanged to death than listening to her BS which is just a reflection her disgusting, abhorrent, mentally frustrated personality.

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uberalles are you Muslim? I will post my reply to your arguments after knowing about your religious background.