It’s not about blaming oneself, but about not forcing it on the other. It’s not about seeking forgiveness, but showing the courage to confess where you went wrong. A simple apology can go a great deal in strengthening a relationship with the glue of trust and understanding. But still, we hesitate to utter those three words that can make or mar a realtionship. Haven’t you ever felt lighter and not lesser after apologising to your loved ones? Don’t you think it’s better to apologise than to sulk with a killing ego?
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Apologizing...since it shows humility from the person's side too.
I read some where that the best way to apologize is the saying I am sorry and the next thing saying is "How can I make it up to you"
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Apologising is the best way to strength the relationship with our loved ones.One should never let pride stand in the way of making things right,by not apologising.
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Apologizing for the rite reason- YES but i dont believe in apologizing just for the heck of it when u dont mean it from heart.
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**There are times when an apology work miracles and then there are times when even an apology is not good enough. And you must show what you mean by your actions. Sadly, life doesn’t give us second chances to work out our mistakes of the past so make the most out of your time with those who you care deeply for. Put your ego aside and get the courage to accept that you are wrong.
Its all easier said then done. 
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It's not about blaming oneself, but about not forcing it on the other. It's not about seeking forgiveness, but showing the courage to confess where you went wrong. A simple apology can go a great deal in strengthening a relationship with the glue of trust and understanding. But still, we hesitate to utter those three words that can make or mar a realtionship. Haven't you ever felt lighter and not lesser after apologising to your loved ones? Don't you think it's better to apologise than to sulk with a killing ego?
i totally agree with ur comments
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In theory yes...in reality i have seen the exact opposite. I dont have an overinflated ego and I know when i am wrong and i do apologize. But still some people either dont respond and hold on to thier bad feelings against u or they accept and still bring it up over again. Those ppl usually end up being not worth the trouble anyway.
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I'll just share a quote on this topic:
"Apologizing doesn't always mean that you're wrong and the other one is right. It, at times, does mean that you value the relationship you're in."
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Regardless of the 'wonders' it does to a relationship, one should not apologize if (s)he
1) has deep insight into their actions
2) truly believes that they were right in doing what they did
3) has the ability to explain it well to the other party, listen to their arguments and give them value.
Given that it does not lead to frustration; positive, rational and dynamic counter-argument, is a good way to resolve disputes. Apologizing with little insight will only lead to deteriorating self-esteem in the apologizing party, and perhaps add to the arrogance of other. Relationships are important, but they are important if only you truly exist.