What is it like to leave some one you “thought” you loved. Do you go back to your old love? If so how do you go back to them if they’re even interested in you any more? If not that, do you go back to searching for your soul mate as if you just started? How do you go about so?
Serious answers please, it’s for a very important person.
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
well its really hard to leave sumne u luv....most of the time there r family confusions..and they lead to divorce ..sepration..etc etc...ppl got to be mature in this situation..lekin asia hota nai...
im gng through this divorce process right now..my parents r with me..and we had several arguments/fights..with my inlaws..nothing worked out...
i obviously dnt feel for him anymre,,...am mad at him but at the same time i knw i still luv him..its a very hard time really....
i dnt thnk u can think about sumne else ..ur old luv..a new luv..a new rishta..or whtever it is...for sumtime..u need a bit time to gt over it...
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
I'm sorry about that. How are you handling it? Did you talk to you ex at all?
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
i never had any ex....he was my first luv...and yeah..am so broken right nw..i dnt knw wht to do...my dad is handling all the court work
my hubby dnt even wanna talk to me....there is soo much misunderstndng between us...
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
It must be so hard trying to talk to the person you love and they won't even respond to you because of recent hatred for whatever reason. What about all the good times you spent with them? How do they just give up on that and not forgive you?
Sorry to hear that Citrine. May Allah give you saber. If you dont mind me asking how long have u been married?
My aunt went through a divorce. It was complicated. She was married to her first cousin and had 3 children. He was a drunkard and there were no witness except the kids (eldest being 10 yrs) when he divorced her and she simply didnt wanna continue at tht moment. Family tried to patch them up again and stuff, but nothing worked out. However, nowadays she is doing something very odd for desi people to do. Or in my family at least. She let her ex-hubby come at home to meet the kids and she chitchats with him as old buddies. She and her friend even stole his car for a ride while he was there and stuff like that. I find it to a very abnormal behavior, cuz when they were married they would hardly talk or see each other for days.. oh well .. so well i think she is not over him and its been almost 10 yrs now .. geez!
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
^they were meant to be bf/gf not husband/wife. may be ?
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
^haha lolz u mean bf as lover? .. dont say tht to my mum or she might get a heartattack :p
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
well jst a few months
..nd the worst thing is we have to wait for another year...u cant gt divorce in the first year or ur marriage...
imagine how hard it is
Re: Anyone here divorced? Know of any one?
^Uf i can imagine how difficult it must be. And are you sure there is no way this can work? ..