we didnt start trying for a baby in beginning of marriage becoz i felt i wasnt ready and also we were both working full time and was still living in joint family. we both felt we’ll start trying properly once we get our own house and are able to stand up on own two feet u know wat i mean. but i never took the pill or any contraceptive method either, it just didnt happen.i did have irregular periods and sum very heavy at times but never resulted in pregancy, maybe i was very stressed anyway cuz of the whole lifestyle management back then, but all this bad interrogation from family only startd since we moved into own house, its been over a year. ..we have explained many times what we’re goin thru but my inlaws are just those kinda ppl who just wanna know the deepest personal detail,even tho we’re both fine but they still say ‘lok kya kaehn ge?’ i totally understand that but why cant they also say Allah ki marzi, my hubs too weak to make a stand, thats the prob for me becoz i have to speak up n answer to them all and sumtimes the frustration gets the better of me…