full stop… many hugs to u!! i so feel ur pain. ive been married 4 yrs too but we only strted tryin more than a yr ago( i m PCOS patient). trust me ive been thru it ALL!!! ive been on metformin for months, then tried clomid with metformin and without it also for 6 cycles. after this i decided to take a break. since more than 6-7 cycles of clomid is not gud they say. anyway, all this while i was in and out of hospitals for constant checkin up on my ovulation.. one time i ovulated but the egg were small, one time it was big enuff and i got injection. atleast 2 times i have taken injection. the pressure was way too mch to begin to explain. i was in hospital every 11th day of my period and 14th also if the result was gud. thankfully, i had insurance so i didnt care havin ultra sounds every month… but it was too stressful as u can see. cus each time my expectations wud b high, maybe i conceived on clomid but no, it didnt happen. to top it off, my hubs’s sperm count was gud but motility way tooooooo low, that means the sperms had gr8 difficulty to reach my eggs. it was soo soo depressin, cus not only me, my hubs had a prb too, which was ofcourse crazy for me. my hubs merely took a 1 month course of meds for his prb. both of us lazy so u can imagine!!!
anyway, for many months becus of this laziness, i stopped takin metformin also!!! metformin is somethin that i shud have continued even if i was not takin clomid. but i didnt take any for more than 3-4 months. lazyyyyyy me. i got my period despite this for 2 months i guess. jun 15 was my last period that i got and after that no sign of aunt flow. 3 months at a strech and i didnt suspect pregnancy cus how can i get preg if i didnt get period, if i didnt ovulate. but Allah always does what it wills at the rite time. june, july, aug, sept passed, i was way too busy in these months and didnt think twice abt preg. i did 1 preg test in between and it was -ve. suddenly in sept i strted urinatin every 30 mins, my nipples hurt for a week, no vomit nothin… my cousin told me to check for preg and i did and in oct, it was positive!!! bear in mind that i conceived without any period (in jul-aug most probably, i m almost in week 13 now). so without period, its Allah’s miracle that i conceived. how did i ovulate, beats me.. i m confused but it happened!!
First off, a big congratulations
Secondly, I think you have misunderstood the whole concept about ovulating and having periods. You can get pregnant without having had a period as you only need an ovulation. Usually, normally a period arrives after you ovulate. You dont need a period to ovulate. Just wanted to tell you that.
BEst of luck
