Re: Anyone else trying to conceive?.. Willing to share your tips, experiences etc?
and listen full stop, its ridiculous of ur ILs to ask for reports.. thats a personal thing and i think ur hubs shud take a stand. even if u guys have prb, its embarassing to show it to them. trust me after 2 yrs of my marriage ppl were askin me too.. some even after 1st yr but that was ok for me. but after 3rd yr it was too mch and ppl strted sayin karlo and all that crap. i had strted tryin then before that i was workin for 2 yrs so that made ppl shut up to an extent but didnt keep them quiet. so honey, i know ive been thru it, its v v hurting and embarassing when ppl ask and dun understand that its our own wish ot planning. its better to say u r plannin than jab Allah ki marzi cus after sum yrs they are like test karwao and stuff... sympathies and all. so b normal. tell ppl u strted tryin now and etc. btw full stop y were u not tryin for 3 yrs? career, not ready or wot? it helps to let ppl know ur plans in initial stages itself so no one doubts u and ur hubs