Anyone else trying to conceive?.. Willing to share your tips, experiences etc?

[Honey_19]

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Hi GS, just thot i share my situation, i rly need a second opinion.

i’m in similar position too, we have been trying for over a year and no luck.
im 6st, 5’3’’ and 25yrs old. we were referred to the fertility clinic by our GP, they took all tests and observed us for past 3 months . my periods r regular. im taking folic acid daily.
we went back y/day for results and they sed we r both fine medically as im producing rly healthy eggs and my hubs sperm count is good..altho im alittle underweight, my BMI is 16.5 and it shud be between 18 - 22.
.but my blood test showed im not immune to german measles ie rubella so have to be vaccinated for that, i thot i already had that dun at high school age.
also they sed before taking the next step to iui or ivf, they have to take a closer look at my womb, they have to perform a laproscopy to get a better view of my tummy area inside and to see if any tubes r blocked etc, they have to put me to sleep for this as i cant tk the pain. i screamed the place dwn when they tried to carry out smear test, they tuk three swabs, omg it hurt. but this laproscopy op procedure has lots of risks too, i rly dunno wat to do.
also theres so much pressure from inlaws as we’ve been married for over 4 yrs nw. i rly hate going to family gatherings now as auntys start asking me silly questions. they dnt understand, its all upto Allah, it’ll happen when time is right. my hubbys been great support, he suggests we try as naturally as possible & keep praying..my inlaws are demanding us to get a medical report from the doc so they can see def with their own eyes that we r actually both fine, they dnt belive us otherwise,they dnt belive we r serius for a baby too.
with all this, omg…i try not think and stay calm but its easier sed than dun…im totally stuck. plz help.

Hi
I think getting this test done where u can see if the tubes are blocked or not is definitely not wrong, once my mother told me that she was not conceiving for two years, consulted a doc after that and found out that one of the tubes were blocked, she got that membrane or whateva it was removed and the result after two months was a moti taazi bachi … MOI …

So, dun worry at all … ALLAH sabb theek kare ga .. jus dun loose hope and dun stress urself, i know how relatives or people can be …
but keep in mind that whatever it is, they cant help themselves to chew ur brians … so just ignore it ..

one guppy here mentioned those fertility tests, try to use them as well, to have a precise indication …

Wishing u all the very best …