Anyone else trying to conceive?.. Willing to share your tips, experiences etc?

Honey_19 · October 24, 2009, 4:41pm

Honey..

Please don’t think that you are being punished.. Allah (swt) DOES forgive those that are sincere..

You may have to wait a month before you get pregnant, you may have to wait a year, but however long it takes, you must be patient and remember that Allah (swt) rewards patience!!

When I miscarried last year I was devastated and really wanted to start trying again.. but there was always something going in our family life that prevented us from trying again. I took this as a “sign” that we are not meant to be trying again and when the time is right, it will happen. I learnt to be patient and used the time I had to strengthen the bond with my DH and to look after my Nieces and my Mum who had just lost their Mother/daughter. I put everyone else before DH and I trying again and I was happy to do it as I knew our patience would be rewarded..

Earlier this month, my Husband out of the blue said he wanted to start trying again and without even thinking about it, I agreed. I kind of thought, if the time is right for us, I will get pregnant, and if not, then we’ll just have to wait till I do.. 10 days later I was getting a few symptoms and decided to test and to my surprise, the test turned positive in seconds..!!

My patience has been rewarded, Alhamdullilah.. I’m still very early on (4wks) and hoping that I don’t miscarry like last time (at 11 wks) so am trying to curb my excitement..

I had a completely relaxed approach to trying again and had the thought that, if it’s meant to happen, it will, if not… well, maybe next time..

A relaxed mind = a relaxed body and that is very important in tryng to conceive. You almost need to have a blasé attitude about it to help avoid stressing..

Thats so great to hear barfii , May ALLAH bless u …

Try to get as much rest as u can this time in that early stage.
My mum always says, no stairs in early pregnany and alot of good and healthy food …