I dont understand…why do “SOME” (not all) men start to feel insecure if the wife is more educated or makes more. Us women feel happy if our husbands make more and are more educated…isnt that strange?
Re: Any psychological reason?
I guess its just in the nature of Some guys.(the hunter/provider instinct)
Re: Any psychological reason?
again...:) Maverick...men love "bakrees" the ones who do 'maaa' 'maaaa' after them..their ego needs to be fed, by our lowliness, a stupid wife is not a threat...havent you heard....
"dont get a pretty wife, you will have to do what she tells you"
"get an ugly one so she can carry your S**T on her head."
these are real advices given by real men..
so does that mean men have a selfish nature in general?
Re: Any psychological reason?
yes they do.
for them, being superior to you=satisfaction
All day outside...they get to deal with bosses, and have to follow rules..this and that..
a home is a place where they want to be the boss, and have someone wait on them....which is why in Pakistan they will never get rid of naukars, its deeply embedded..
Re: Any psychological reason?
cuz "some" men wanna control their wives and according to them they can control someone less educated better. But indeed I've seen cases where the hubby has the hardest time with the wife who is not educated enough - they have weird sort of arguing topics. The wife is stubborn and not able to comprehend a modern lifestyle because of the lack of education. Guess guys should realize that :p