My parents can physically stop me from going out. What would you say about that? Ur talkin about travelling? They wont let me go to the next city, and ur talking about travelling. I dont even know where to go any more because plenty of the places I can possibly go are restricted by them. For example, cant go to movies, beaches, shopping alone, etc.
And if u go against them, they curse u and tell u that u may perhaps go to hell for “disobeying” them. In fact she once told me that girls shouldn’t love because it hurts in the end. But the person a girl may love, is a guy too, so why only the girls shouldn’t love? So can’t a guy hurt either? Lame… it doesn’t make any sense to me tbh. And I won’t blame them entirely, just sucks they’re still living in their typical desi mentality century.
I was honestly looking for places to visit in my area as I really don’t want to go home right after work. But I like I said, I dont even know where to go any more. You can classify my parents into the authoritative/controlling type of parents. All these feelings, only strangers online know about. I love my parents, dont wana go against them. Id rather them know where I am and be ok with it. They’re not willing to change their views. I don’t care if they don’t, I love them and accept them for what/how they are. But I think they should give me some space. Which is going to maybe take years for them to understand.