Ok we have heard a lot about “difficulties” faced by wives while staying with in-laws or if in-laws visits for too long.
Any guys here who happen to be a ghar damad or has lived for extended period at susral, share your experience.
I myself has never lived with them for extended period although my sasoo ma sometimes comes form Pakistan for month or so. She is sane enough to know what to say and what not to say.
Only complain I have with her that she treats me too lordly. Its ok I am her daughter’s hubby but I am not a zalim and jabir hubby who gets ticked off of little things. She tries to over compensate me while living with us. I have told her lot of times to consider me as her son and not damad and have also told my wife that I dont like these royal treatments at my own (or even their) home.
Royalty comes with marriage !! . I never thought about this part . In the same context I think being a ‘ghar damad’ is not such a bad idea after all . Means won’t that be cool if your in-laws give you all that importance for free . You get all those mazay mazay ka khanay from your MIL and your wife can’t say a think or show attitude in front of them .
Zardari might have been involved in corruption. but I believe that some of the stories about him are exaggerated.
plus the guy went to jail for several years, was brutally tortured etc... whereas the generals loot with impunity. no one points a finger at them. so if I'm going to marry a rich, corrupt man's daughter, I'd rather marry a Pakistani generals daughter. politicians pay heavy prices for crimes they commit and dont commit.
ghar damads dont have to be useless living off of their wife's parents money kinda guys u know... my friend lived with her folks for a few yrs after getting married and her husband was the nicest guys.. he had just moved to a new country and was looking for a job... so they lived with her parents but from day one the guy paid rent and did their own grocery. he found work later on and moved out.
this khabees ghar damaad needs to be dropped forever...
along with Imran Nazir and Afridi must be the stupidest player to have played the game... just awful. even Yasir Hameed, M. Hafeez, Wasti, Saleem Elahi, etc were better than this clown.
. I never thought about this part . In the same context I think being a ‘ghar damad’ is not such a bad idea after all . Means won’t that be cool if your in-laws give you all that importance for free . You get all those mazay mazay ka khanay from your MIL and your wife can’t say a think or show attitude in front of them .
