shakiba
January 18, 2013, 3:51pm
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Re: anti-anxiety meds on wedding day?
If it helps at all.. I was PETRIFIED on my engagement day, and it was a v small function. I just hated having all eyes on me and people’s cameras on me.. I went really red and I started to get a nervous cough kind of thing and then my eyes started watering. So everyone must have thought I looked really unhappy, but it was just nerves. So after I’d been through that I had a few months before the wedding to calm down.. Funnily enough I considered taking some sort of tablet too, but I was a bit scared of looking doped out on my wedding day and wasn’t sure how I would have reacted to it, so I chickened out. The good thing with our long winded weddings is that there are a number of functions before the actual wedding day. The mayuun was a small family event with just women so I was surprisingly calm and happy that day,I treated it a bit like a rehearsal. The Mehndi day so much goes on anyway, so people aren’t staring at you throughout. What amazed me is on the wedding day I was SO happy, over the moon and on cloud 9. I’d delegated everything on the day to my parents so that I wouldn’t need to stress about anything… From the moment my MUA started my makeup I just went with the flow and enjoyed it.. The whole day went like a dream and I was smiling genuinely even on the stage with everyone watching. The only person that mattered was my husband next to me, and it was just magical :). The same thing will happen to you iA.. You don’t need any anti anxiety meds. Just plan what you can beforehand, and then on the day enjoy every minute because you won’t get it back.
100% agree… enjoy all da love, attention and hype. start praying 2 nafals everyday before your big day so that evrything goes fine… worked for me Alhamdulilah