how many of you answer back to your inlaws, or just stay quiet. do you get involved in household conversations. do you have other people in ur household who doesnt get involved in convos, who doesnt really respond to such and is still labelled as a something or other?
goddddddddddd, my thread title has been set by my 2 yr old daughter.
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Wow your two year is also involved in life. I think your baby is first youngest guppan who used life 1 at the age of two. Again credit goes to you for this weird record. 
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thanks.
and no replies.
okkk, maybe i need to add drama in this one.
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Khoob jee bhar ke bolaa kareN...muNh toR jawaab diyaa kareN aur laRne ke liye taiyaar rahaa kareN...aise hii aapke sasuraal waale aapke qaaboo meN aayeNge varna aap saarii umr yuNhii GS pe rone dhone ke threads lagaatii raheNgii...bas sab ko Daraa dhamkaa ke apne UNDER kar leN :D
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angraizi please.
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angraizi please.
oh oh...what i meant was:
if you don't act according to what i just said, you will end up posting your lamentations on GS all your life.
so, get ready for the Armageddon in your sasuraal! *:D
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Disclaimer: do NOT try this at home without supervision! :D
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i am too scared of everythn.. as i told u i m goin to get married in feb 2013 n i m thinkin da same , what should be my attitude towards my inlaws.. 
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i am gonna live in joint family system n i am not used to it as i am living wid my dad alone at home.. i am too scared and worried 
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No Faexa Khan don't be scared .
I think we can help you in that cases when you husband gonna follow these instruction .
Just inform here when you will be married . We will train you good be cause we have OSTAD Khalil Khan Pro .
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Don't answer back. Keep your respect, never lower your standards for others. No matter how bad the situation is, rudeness and batamizi is a no no, it just kills thing on another level.
P.S, not answering back does not in no way mean your scared and opressed, it's just a level of tameez and tehzeeb that you can apply. Don't get involed in other people's gossip, don't argue , don't answer back and never swear or curse. There are other better positive ways of communication.
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i dont live with them, we talk on the phone pretty frequently. if i dont like something, i try my best to stay quiet and i never talk back to them.
in my opinion it is not healthy if it becomes a habit b/w two parties to constantly talk back to each other.
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I don't answer back if someone says nythin ....i always discuss is with my hubby afterwards... And if things r really hard... I call my mum up to get rid of my frustration
I have always learned not to respond back if an elder says anythin...dont lower urself that much....
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i dont live with them, we talk on the phone pretty frequently. if i dont like something, i try my best to stay quiet and i never talk back to them.
in my opinion it is not healthy if it becomes a habit b/w two parties to constantly talk back to each other.
Don't they take you for grated then? I notice when I stay quiet, then my MIL doesn't shut her mouth and taunt for hours but When I answer back then she is quiet.
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unless you can answer back with composure, right content and civilized manner, its better to keep your mouth shut. Normally, answer given in the heat of the moment is not a right answer.
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I do answer back to my sister and stuff........but to cousins, uncles, etc...nope I dont! I think anyone and everyone shud participate in convo's but never take sides especially if related to inlaws..