another western-boy goes back home to marry ...

[Reha]

@NaMaan

Pakistani here in America usually have very strong bonds back home . Living abroad they feel compelled to keep this connection alive by marrying in families back home . Doesn’t matter how much we adopt to American culture but still we think of it as temporary stop in life and eventually plan to go back to Pakistan .

So in an arrange marriage it just more then will of girl and guy and more of the family ties in both countries .

Absolutely!

@farrah

are paki-american girls different than paki-american boys then in regards to this opinion … talking in reference to the general mindset ive read here on GS … also threads like reha posted of her friend not wanting to marry an fob.

I think so. I think men are just simpler creatures though. Their formula for happiness doesnt change, be it Pakistan or America. Women are more complex and an American born woman will be complex because she is raised around different ideals and goals.