one of my friend called me today on telephone and tell me about her (mishappen) engagement.She was littlery weeping:bummer:,this is the second time that her engagement was broken and she is really in depression. My heart goes out for her . Surround herself with family and friends to help her through this horrible time.The GS (gapans )girls who had faced this kinda musiq,know very well how difficult and painful that time could be for that particular individual.I know that will take some time to recover but why always this happened to sweeet women only . she was now confused, abt a what to do about this engagement ring,that guy didnt want to take this ring back.
Then at the end i told her that i didnt marry yet why are you so worried about your self,at last she laughed. thanx god.i told her that You deserve and inshalla will find much better than the likes of him.
After that i told her that Instead of incessantly giving in and giving the benefit-of-the-doubt, you paid attention to your self. Well, she might lost the dreams and lost the guy too , but I sincerely think she had saved her sanity and health too . This guy would leave her in a gutter...
Rise up and allow yourself to grow
now gapies please giv som recommendation for that particular ring ?if you were their what you will going to do ?
ok seriously you should ask her to sell the ring and buy some nice clothes with it. it will make her feel better. or give the ring to a poor felow...errr fellow...
marriage in our society is a rough thing to do.
u are right that she needs to strengthen her own self first and train herself to not be practing selfpity.
guys and boys come and go in womens’ lives.
women need to be picky in who is worthy of their attention.
obviously whoever broke mungni with her, must have his limitations & it is good it was only an engagement, not shadi.
again, she needs to compare and contrast her ideal, her parents’ ideal son-in-law and try to, for sometime at least, not be open to looking for or being approached for a relationship, to regroup herself.
people should also not think that they are somebody’s second best.
dushwari sure talks dushwari...no offense when I read ur posts it seems as if I am reading some copy and paste stuff...doesnt make me feel that I am hearing ur voice or reading ur own opinion. Try to bend ur writing style so we readers can enjoy wat u write :) just a friendly advice
EMM dushwari is not that kind of at all that you think i mean GOOGLE COPY PASTE. this is really painful:bummer: by listening such kinda of remarks from ur side.She is a serious kinda girl, every thing there is her original stuff
i didnt marry yet why are you so worried about your self,at last she laughed. thanx god.i told her that You deserve and inshalla will find much better than the likes of him.
dushwari is not that kind of at all that you think i mean GOOGLE COPY PASTE. this is really painful:bummer: 
by listening such kinda of remarks from ur side.She is a serious kinda girl, every thing there is her original stuff
