Re: Another question on haq mahar
I heard from an Aalim that amount be, that in case of Divorce, girl should be able to maintain the same life style that she had in her maika, for at least 6 months. I think this makes sense as in case of divorce, about 4 of those months are iddat, and then rest two can be used by the girl to find another rishta.
Does 'aalim' have any source, or is it just arbitrary and he just made it up?
Re: Another question on haq mahar
Does 'aalim' have any source, or is it just arbitrary and he just made it up?
It was just a suggestion from his side, not a fatwa.
Re: Another question on haq mahar
I heard from an Aalim that amount be, that in case of Divorce, girl should be able to maintain the same life style that she had in her maika, for at least 6 months. I think this makes sense as in case of divorce, about 4 of those months are iddat, and then rest two can be used by the girl to find another rishta.
this is the wrong thing circulating in our society k haq mehr should be paid at time of divorce infact islam says best is to paya as earlier as possible like most probably at the time of nikah. wht I heard after divorce in idat duration x huby pays for the wife expenditures, I might be wrong but I heard this
Re: Another question on haq mahar
this is the wrong thing circulating in our society k haq mehr should be paid at time of divorce infact islam says best is to paya as earlier as possible like most probably at the time of nikah. wht I heard after divorce in idat duration x huby pays for the wife expenditures, I might be wrong but I heard this
You are right. Their are two parts of Mehr; Mu'ajjal and Mu'wajjal.
'Ajjal' ones need to be paid in haste (came from the word Ujlat). 'Wajjal' one can be delayed (came from 'Ajal' with 'ain', like woh luqma-e-ajal kaa shikar ho gaye, means end or death)' but cannot be delayed further than divorce. This condition (but cannot be delayed further than divorce) created that misconception that its due at divorce time, which is, as you said, is wrong.
also Mu'ajjal can be forgiven by wife, but Muwajjal cannot. Its her right that even she cannot forfeit.
Re: Another question on haq mahar
Re: Another question on haq mahar
It was my brother in law from my side (my behnoi, not my sala). I got stabbed by my own family :(
LOL now this is epic!
Re: Another question on haq mahar
It was my brother in law from my side (my behnoi, not my sala). I got stabbed by my own family :(
You deserve it for becoming a cheapster :p.... :D
Re: Another question on haq mahar
If you're living in a western country, please make your mehr affordable for your husband so he can pay upfront.
Otherwise, you ain't gettin it if y'all go separate ways.