When I finally moved out I was thankful for all they helped me with raising my son but I was happy to have my independence. Now 2 years later my husband wants them to move in with us. I don't know how I can handle this. I DO NTO WANT THIS TO HAPPEN. I don't mean to sound like a B*&% but I think personal freedom and privacy are very important. I am flexible with buying them another place near to us and visiting them often, etc etc but staying in the same house as me, seeing them everyday will drive me crazy, especially since they don't share the same values as me. They depend on him so much I feel thats why they need to live with him.
How do I tell my husband this without breaking his heart? I do not want to create any problems but I need peace of mind as well and having someone just come and take over my house(such as my mother in law) would be unfair to me. However, they are his parents who took care of him so how do I deal with this situation?
Freedom and privacy are important and you need to tell your husband this. Why can't your husband agree to helping his parents move in the same neighborhood? Why do they HAVE to live in your house?