Found out today that another one of my Pakistani boys got his Austrian gf pregnant and is going to marry her.
So, do you guys think that just because you get a girl pregnant that you should marry her?
What abut the kids, can my mate really insist his kids are raised Muslim when he flouts every single islamic law except eating pork?
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Are you the sane one among your friends @badabing?
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Pretty much.
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doesn’t say much about your group then, eh? 
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Meh, it is what it is.
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Well someday they all come around. Its better than abortion or leaving girl and child alone.
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Yes.. there’s no ‘just’ about it.. If he got her pregnant the decent thing to do would be to marry her.. It’s a lot worse to be in relationship or string someone along then dump them..
Your last sentence can apply to a lot of people, your mate at least is decent enough to care about the unborn child..
You’ve admitted you’ve had gfs so what’s so bad about him marrying his?
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Very good point. I’m not judging him in anyway. It seems so final to me. I was always under the impression that she was just a bit of fun - especially the way he use to go on about her. As soon as she gets pregnant, he’s going down the marriage route. Meh, good luck to him. I was thinking how a lot of my boys have gone down this route - get a girl knocked up and marry her. The guy in question is marrying a girl he’s married brother (who married a gori) was cheating on his wife with. The thing is, they all end up cheating on their wives afterwards, which kind of negates the point of marriage for me. Meh, good luck to him.
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what wise person said that he has learned to be good by sitting amongst the bad?
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come on muzna, that’s way too philosophical for my simple brain.
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lol…there are so many more complex thoughts on the matter…this was the easiest one I could think of.
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go even easier next time. pehlay hi itna dimaagh nahin kaam karta, roza rakh kay toh kuch raha hi nahin. 
:hinna:
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From an islamic point of view its allowed.
Do i think its right? Yes it is his child after; all whether from a non-muslim or muslim woman a child is a child and deserves the** right** a good up bringing.
Do i think the child will be bought up islamically? If hes not following any rulings of islam i doubt that he will be worried about whether the child will be bought up islamically. But it’s possible if other family members help in the upbringing of the child.
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She is his gf so that signifies some level of commitment to her on his part. So if she’s having this baby, then he needs to do right by both of them. If he flouts religious rules in the sense that he openly and proudly disobeys and mocks them…then I doubt that he’d be too bothered by whether his kid is a Muslim or not. If he disobeys out of weakness or laxity in iman …then maybe there’s some potential for him to change later on. Actually even in the former case …you never know…he still might change, hidayat is in Allah’s hands. But this baby is his and the baby has rights upon him as its father…regardless of whether father considers himself to be Muslim or otherwise.
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Hidayat is in Allahs hands.
I distant cousin got a US girl pregnant, got married, baby born , a daughter. He did not mend his ways, carried on with other women, his wife left him, got custody of the daughter, who was raised as a non Muslim. Gorgeous young lady now. He never cared, his family never cared, and he is with his latest gori gf.
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When I was young I had a crush on this girl, who was church going and by all means seemed very close to what our religious values were, I discussed it with my dad. later that weekend, we had a long discussion about it while on our way to MN, we reached a verdict with full consensus after evaluating different aspects. Now I know what I am gonna tell me son.
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Well..glad he is owning the responsibility and marrying her at least.
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Is abortion not an option… It sounds inhuman… But what’s the point of raising a child in a confused environment…when u can pick …
Men…I don’t think…they change… M not generalizing .. But had the child not been there would he still have married her…if so…then okey…
But if…no.. Then there is no point on divorcing later..confused religious stuff …cheating..custody.. Why do that to a child…
If he wanna marry her…take time …decide… Then do.. Not bcz something got wrong someday and I stuck with her attitude…