Re: another marriage problem..advice needed
Wow, thats really sad PCG. It looks like you're probably going to have to make a choice here but maybe there's something you can try if your Mom is willing.
Have your Mom invite the guy over as a potential rishta and have your father meet with him without bringing up where he's from. If your father likes him, maybe you'll have a better chance.
Aside from that, you may have to make a really difficult choice. You can defy your father and hope that, in time, he will forgive and forget. Most parents will, most especially once the grandkids start arriving.
Or you give up your love in order to please your parents and hope that they can find someone else for you that you'd be able to accept.
I wish you the best.