Yes Exactly, it is HIS relatives, they have lost all right on him and he have ( by any mean) no right to help them ( if he can), HIS jahil relatives ( how these Jahil relatives allowed him to become a DACTAR… it would be different case if he is a Neem-hakeem or Homeopathetic DAACTAR).. HE shuold have married a girl from his PIND only and not anyone so SOPHISTICATED that she get disgust with HIS relatives…
Here is what to do, throw him out the house, divorce him and find a nice clean non-jahil family ( this time make sure that they don’t have a single relative from any PIND)…