thats the thing…forget about cleaning…attend your guests. ask them their hal-ehwal. talk to them about their experiences, about their life, do some tareef of em.
and when its khana time ask em to help you in the kitchen after all they makes the best roti…if they dont wana make one…then get it from outside. but dont ruin yourself in expectation of some reward cuz to be honest people really dont care much about food cuz khana to sub he khatay hain or teen waqt ka he khatay hian.
and when hubby comes home ask him to help you in the cleaning.
ps. sajal api, we women stress a lot about what other women will think about our cleaning habits. which shouldn’t be anyones matter and we should also be not something to stress a lot about.