Do not worry no one is taking it personal. We are just expressing our opinion. It all boils down to individuals position.
Unlike west, in our society a son could not run away from a duty toward parents at least. And you started at wrong foot by saying that they come from Pind without any reason.
If we are talking about behavioral Jahaalat, please do not forget he is (may be you as well) also from same background. Only difference is after getting a good degree and good life in the city we have changed.
But that would not give anyone licence to treating them and their lifestyle in poorly.