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so what happened ?
did u talk to your sister about this?
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zilentzpring 
sooo nice of you to ask!
Alhamdullillah, as far as I know, they’ve stopped communicating. It was stressing her out wayy too much and everyone was starting to notice something wasn’t right. So I told her everything ‘straight up’ and she agreed to stop talking to him. But I was a little hesitant because she agreed way too easily. So I kept a good watch on her and told my mom about this. Now both of us (mom and I) make sure she isn’t in touch.
Not sure if she’s convinced that this is the right thing to do but she seems to be going with the flow (our flow, that is). 
Again, thanks for asking!
i am so glad to hear that things r under control....she might not realize this rit now but insallah soon she'll understand why u dont want her to b in touch with 'him' .....and the reason u n ur mom did that was cuz u didnt wanted her to end up hurting herself.....
It just ticks me off when a grown up MAN (who has approached the age to be a parent himself) says that HIS parents wants him to get engaged/married to someone else... and poor him has to say bye bye to his current girlfriend...
This guy simply does not have the gut to take his girlfriend to his parents or what? He is willing to SCAN all the other possible rista's WITH his parents but he won't introduce his girlfriend - and esp. baffles me if the girl is a Muslim, Paki, and within the same neighborhood back in Pak - then what's the problem?
I mean guys like this clearly are aware that they do not/will not marry the girl they are seeing. They have usually made up their mind that they will not marry the girlfriend... they are simply wasting the girls precious time.
how low and disrespectful to your girlfriend?
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^ Very well said. Spot on. Coward is the word I think we're looking for to describe these 'men'.
There's sumthing not right confused if they were in contact thru mails, why didn't he tell her of his engagement! If he treated her bad in the beginning by totally disappearing on her then he is capable of doing it again. She shud move back, this person isnt to be trusted at all! I wudn't want my sister to go thru heartbreak hell all over again =(
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I can only wish she finds a better, grown up man soon and be happy.
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^ Thank you, dude. Very much appreciated. :)