Re: annoying uncles..
^^ Yea… nice advice. But the problem is I’ll have no one who’ll agree with me. The ppl in Pak are so cliched, many don’t know how to stay “in the swing”, they’ll either go too far trying to be “maadern” or be too “rivayati” to the point of being annoying. Even worse, they’ll try to copy off the “maadernness” of the West 
yet keep up the annoying customs of their so-called “rivayat” < My case was somewhat similar to this.