Don’t you hate it when people ignore you and pretend they didn’t see you but the same people will approach you when they need something and act like you are their best buddy?
I was using a computer in the computer lab and there was this Indian dude who always thinks he’s something. He used to be in my class and we used to talk in the class. After the semester was over, of course there was no need for us to talk, really. But every now and then, I would say hello to him and he would act like he doesn’t know me, which is fine with me because I too usually avoid people. He printed something and needed 5 cents to get the printout. So he came to me, didn’t even say hello, just came to me and said ‘dude, you got 5 cents?’…I didn’t have any change on me but even if I did, I wouldn’t have given it to him.
Ticked me off. The reason I was ticked off is that if you are not going to talk to someone, then don’t talk at all. Don’t just not talk to someone and ignore and pretend like you don’t know him/her but approach him/her only when you need help. I am not perfect but I don’t like such people. If I don’t talk to someone on regular bases, then I don’t approach him/her when I am in need of something, or at least I try my best not to.
I guess it’s the same as if you don’t think of someone in your good times, there’s no need to think of him/her in your bad times either.
The way I would say it is: You find out who your real friends are when you are going through a rough patch, if people walk away, then they are not worth it if they cant support you when your time is bad.
Duniya bohut mutlubi hei. Some people just use and abuse you. But you have to make a stand and not let this happen, otherwise people will continuosly do so.
i was thinking to open a thread on this topic .. :=D .. i hate it when someone ignores me like a piece of beep .. :@ .. in real life n here on gs too .. this girl from my school works with my .. she is so nice to my at work cuz we both talk n time goes really fast but in school she doesn't even say hello n pass by me like she doesn't know me .. we both are in same grades plus had few classes together last year but arghhhh .. n like a week back it was her b'day n i was getting late for my chem class so i was walking really fast n she comes from behind n say "oh shamaila aren't you gona wish me? you are so mean" .. argh .. i didn't even see her but i wished her.. i meant what the hell .. it not only makes me mad but it also hurts .. :=s ..
sohail you did the right thing .. big thumbs up ..
Phatima Why so? The coke used to be $1 but due to ever increasing costs, the price has gone up to $ 1.10 and I don’t feel like walking all the way to my car to get 10 cents. So I thought I would borrow it from my friend, a cafiete. What’s the big deal?
Sara stop confusing me with other people The titles of my threads are different. Dig up any thread opened by me and you’ll know.
I agree with u 100%. some people always seem to find a fault in others…maybe they should take a look at themselves first and see maybe the fault is in themselves.