Annoyance

Lifestyle Relationships
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Let’s say hypothetically speaking you are married(does not matter even if you are) and you have kids.

Would you get annoyed if someone came up to you and said your kid/kids is/are annoying and spoilt and start telling you about tips and stuff to do and how to live your life and treat your kids and family?

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Re: Annoyance

A positive criticism to improve our lifestyle should always be welcomed no matter from where it comes. BUT the tone of criticism and the intentions behind it matters a lot. One should be sincere in pointing out mistakes and do it through wisdom with selection of inoffensive words, but one should also practice it oneself and concentrate more on places where it is his responsibility to point out mistakes. Leaving one's own responsibilities and out of the blue pointing out mistakes of people we don't know is not sensible.

CAKE
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Re: Annoyance

Yes i would be annoyed. There are better ways of passing on the message.

CAKE
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Re: Annoyance

Iconoclast what sort of better ways?

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  1. Invite the family to a dinner just that family and put all kinds of goodies on the table. The kids will behave like pigs and the parents will get the message.
  2. Write a letter to the congressman , senator, MNA , MPA to talk to the parents of this family.
  3. Send an email outlining about what you do not like about their kids
  4. Sue them in Court TV.
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Like in general terms what kids do these days etc.

Or if there is anything that bothers them in particular they can speak to me, but , just arriving at my door and giving me a lecture on parenting, am not gonna be pleased.

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Re: Annoyance

Mirch bro i do not know if you are married or not and have kids but that was not called for. I am not looking for scarcastic kinds of comments here, just some opinion on the question at hand.

Iconoclast i agree even i would not be lectured about parenting by some person. No matter how simple natured i am. You are right bro, thank you for sharing.