everyone has it in them.. we all break at times. For some its harder to control than others.
Ive been told I have a lot of patience.. i wasnt always like this. Growing up i used to get so mad with mama and storm of stomping my feet.. only to feel guitly within 2 minutes and have my dad calling me “beta.. come back”..
ive dealt with a lot of peopel in my life who would get angry very quickly, but these people are great nonetheless… yes things would frustrate them easily and when someone is not understanding u when ur explaining for the upteenth time… then i guess id be very upset too… but as time goes on and understanding grows, the anger (or shall i call it frustratation) minimises and maybe even diminishes..
i’ll be honest, i was a nutter in the first year of marriage.. even when i was engaged. I was always believed to be VERY naive, hence my bro was more protective of my acts rather than our sister who was a lot younger… but my naiveness really frustrated my hubby (fiance at the time) and he’d get really upset with me.. and so it was a HUGE learning experience for both of us..
I could have given up on him.. said “oh he’s such a bad guy.. he needs counselling” and jokingly i would say that… but we’re still together and Mashallah its cus we’ve both sat down and tried to understand each other and not cause frustration..
I get upset too.. very upset.. i just have different ways of exploding.. maybe going total quiet and not eating..
all im saying is.. in my opinion… if someone is getting frustrated or angry… they’re not a complete loser.. help them explain what the problem is.. and u try to be a lil understanding
also, im in no way or form saying physical or mental abuse is good. There is a HUGE difference between that… however, a lot of times, us naive people confuse things and think our hubby or wife is a complete wacko.. yet all they may need is a lil understanding
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