anger management

Lifestyle Relationships
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i think i need it

i am by far the btchiest crankiest most cckiest girl i have every witnessed in my life

i used to be like this (though lately i’ve been really off the edge) but then i had recovered in between had been so patient Mash’Allah and was just the sweetest thing

and now again i’ve noticed been days that i’ve bcome so violent so rude mean n crazy that even the smallest things make me just go “snap”

sigh wut is it…and why is it…i don’t wish to do it on purpose i hate doing it but i juz get sooo dang annoyed :crying: :frowning:

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You'll be fine after exams.

Keep working on your temper, insha'Allah. You'll be fine. :)

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^^^^ that is so mush easier to say.

Chorni don't fikar, as you can possibly tell, I too am a bitch. ANd I reckon I have you beat, so, like me, just work on it and inshallah when ur 30 ull be fine.

OR let poeple deal with it.

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Im closed to 30. I thought it'd get better with time but it's getting worse :)

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*Originally posted by hiccup: *
when ur 30 ull be fine.
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I know. Its hard to control yourself when you are angry. I think the best thing to do is just take a few deep breaths and drink some water.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by hiccup: *
^^^^ that is so mush easier to say.

Chorni don't fikar, as you can possibly tell, I too am a bitch. ANd I reckon I have you beat, so, like me, just work on it and inshallah when ur 30 ull be fine.

OR let poeple deal with it.
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I know it's much easier to say. I have tried it and it works, alhamdulillah.

I used to have very bad temper. I've toned down a lot (or may be a little), but I'm constantly working on it.

TheNewWannaBe, you're absolutely right. The older the person gets, the more insane he/she drives others around him/her.

Burhapay mai aisa kuch hi hota hai.

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reading namaz regularly helps. :)

or any kind of meditation, if you're not into the Islamic kind of stuff.

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Sadiya hmm i do no yar…i’ve juz been a crankpot lately

ermmm u n have a temper problem? LOL that was a killer joke :disgust:

**hiccup ** babes ermm u haven’t really seen my *itchiness therefore im pretty sure i’d beat u to it..

n.e. ways i shall try…the older i get the grumpier i get…it sux

Wannabe oh that scares me :frowning:

fallenpieta i think for me, drowing would help :slight_smile:

PCG yes…i think that’s exactly what’s missing :frowning:

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Sadiyah - Really, you’ve tossed my “bachi kuchi” hope out in the bin. How old are ya? :bummer:

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LOL @ tossed bachi kuchi hope out in the bin

I’m turning 20 soon, insha’Allah (already 20 according to Hijri cal).

XchorniX: umm no, I do have a temper prob. However, I’m doing a lot better now. Like I said, you just gotta keep working on it. It takes a lot of patience and time. :slight_smile:

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Oh my God, at 20 you've already lost your hope? I didnt think 20 was "bhurapa"??

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*Originally posted by Sadiyah: *
I'm turning 20 soon, insha'Allah
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Well, my father said that it was actually good to “express” it cz then it gets rid of the “angery” emotions from your body which are negative and can be bad for health in the long run (if kept inside). But he also said that one must find a way to get rid of those emotions in a way which would hurt no one. He said that cz I used to destroy precious things of my own by banging them against the floor, walls, etc. bang doors or in some cases… even my siblings :hehe: So his point was that although it gets rid of the negative emotions of anger which is good but since it looks “violent”, it is not how it should be.

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dont worry chorni ji…from my experience…if u think u r a bitch, u were faking it all along… :k:

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*Originally posted by TheNewWannaBe: *
Oh my God, at 20 you've already lost your hope? I didnt think 20 was "bhurapa"??

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I haven't at all lost hope. Alhamdulillah, I've already improved a lot and am constantly working on it. :)

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Oooh and here I thought you said the below out of own experience... oh maybe someone's else's then..

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*Originally posted by Sadiyah: *
Burhapay mai aisa kuch hi hota hai.
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*Originally posted by TheNewWannaBe: *
Oooh and here I thought you said the below out of own experience... oh maybe someone's else's then..

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Observation :)

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sighz

I lost my temper just a little while ago and I got to hear ‘ghussa hamesha charha rehta hai’.

That caught me in surprise. I thought I’ve been improving, keeping my mouth shut more often and all and just then I get to hear this.

I try so hard to be patient, but at times I end up losing it. I guess this at times happens very often. May be every other week. Sometimes more often, while less at others.

I don’t feel appreciated when I’ve been trying so hard to improve. Or may be it’s just me thinking that I’ve been improving, but in reality I may not have been. :frowning: :teary2:

done venting