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i feel like crying.
tu cry...
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this theory of lourvveee.... how can anyone be soooo much in love with someone?? i dunt understand the love between husband and wife...between the engaged couple...it just feels toooo much to me...i can keep the relations going but only as long as the next person doesnt get tooo attached to me...as soon as the attachment comes...all the things that i dunt like abt this person fills up my head and i start running back ultey paoun literally... i know im wrong here...no body is perfect and i need to come to terms with other person's flaws specially if its the husband wife thing...but i dunt know whats wrong with me...i want to tell him kae please stop saying all the romantic things and being tooo attached... wat do i do??? i feel like crying.
You need to see some professional. Yes this is serious advice. There are some underlying issues for how you feel, like you might be scared of losing someone you start to get attached to.
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im having the samee feelings...coz i know something is wrong with me and not with the other person...i was all okay in the begining and now down the road i want to reconsider my decisions...i mean wat...is it a joke or something..im sick of myself.
You need professional help for sure.
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What does attachment mean to you?
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I dont see anything abnormal in it. Its simply that “love” cannot be inseminated. I dont believe its an intentional or a well planned feeling either. That would have been something else. Until you find a true man, you might not feel drawn and clicked. Moreover, the filmy type of love, as you might be thinking of here, like that of Romeo Juliet and Heer Ranjha, is only filmy. Here people remain together and in love as far as its convenient. (im not talking about every couple but most of them). So love is not ever lasting. In the married couples also, its not “love only” or “love basically”. There are so many other constituents like commitment, patience, compromise, care, affection, companionship, support, and its always two way.
Maybe what you feel being afraid of is commitment, or pushed into a relationship. That would happen unless your heart tells you to. So you just listen to your heart, be positive about life and dont bother much about this love philosophy. Complete waste of time in my opinion. 
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lostangel...relax...breathe in.... breathe out...
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why are you scared of attachment? is it that you are scared he will leave you? is it that you are scared he will hurt you?
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this theory of lourvveee.... i know im wrong here...no body is perfect and i need to come to terms with other person's flaws specially if its the husband wife thing...but i dunt know whats wrong with me...i want to tell him kae please stop saying all the romantic things and being tooo attached... wat do i do??? i feel like crying.
Thats the problem, he says a lot things just to make u happy rather then meaning em.
The problem isnt attachment, u have doubts on what ur husband tells you because he is too cheesy and he needs to stop doing that.
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Thats the problem, he says a lot things just to make u happy rather then meaning em.
The problem isnt attachment, u have doubts on what ur husband tells you because he is too cheesy and he needs to stop doing that.
no he is not saying tooo much...but i feel its too early for all of it.
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R you guys married or engaged ?
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tell him you believe in certain limits during the engagement period. There is no need one should get too romantic (upto the level of another one's discomfort) when they are engaged (only) feelings are precious and they should be spent frugally (before marriage).
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You should define the lines at the earlier stage. Seems like you want to get involved ..but only your away. No it doesnt work this way dear. You should stop creating the mess really.
with the Slang language, I can tell you need to grow a little before really 'understanding'.