An unfortunate ending of a female Pakistani Cricketer

This can be a continuation of earlier thread by PS regarding a blog of Pakistani women. And I know i said it doesnt happen that much but now i think i was under the wrong impression as proven below.

A couple of days back I heard about this pakistani female cricketer committing suicide in her home. Ofcourse wondered what could have wrong but the following news says a lot about it. Its totally appalling.

So unfortunate, I hope and pray the people who forced her to commit suicide get punishment asap

Family reveals female cricketer was under ‘extreme stress’

By AFP
Published: July 17, 2014

Halima Rafique. PHOTO: FILE

****KARACHI: A female cricketer who committed suicide by drinking acid was under extreme stress after an administrator sued her for pursuing a sexual harassment case against him, her cousin said on Thursday.
Halima Rafique, a 17-year-old all-rounder from the central city of Multan died in her home on Sunday in a case that has shocked both fans and women’s rights activists, who have accused cricket authorities of covering up her damaging claims.
Rafique along with four other domestic cricketers — Seema Javed, Hina Ghafoor, Kiran Irshad and Saba Ghafoor — had jointly leveled the charges against Multan Cricket Club chairman Maulvi Sultan Alam and selector Mohammad Javed in a television show in June last year.
The Pakistan Cricket Board (PCB) formed a two-member inquiry committee which in October cleared the officials of any wrongdoing and banned all five women from playing for six months.
Three of the women changed their statements before the committee, while Ghafoor and Rafique declined to appear, amid speculation that the women had been pressured to back down.
Last week, Alam filed a defamation case against the television channel officials as well as the cricketers seeking damages of Rs20 million.
Halima’s family said the lawsuit had pushed her over the edge.
“It’s tragic,” Rashid Rafique, cousin and brother-in-law of Halima told AFP from Multan on phone. “She was very worried and we feel that the tension took her life.”
Punjab law minister Rana Mashood, also a minister for sports, has ordered an inquiry.
But Rafique requested privacy in to allow them to grieve properly.
“Halima’s mother has been bed-ridden since the tragedy and she is a heart patient,” said Rafique.
He described Halima as a bubbly personality and a cricket fanatic.
“She was very cheerful and wanted to be an international cricketer,” reminisces Rafique. “At a very young age, she used to bowl fast and bat like a batsman and realising her interest we allowed her to play cricket.
“We never knew that her small wishes, her interest in the game will take her life,” said Rafique, who used to drive her to and from the stadium.
“She was a mad fan of Shahid Afridi,” said Rafique of Pakistan’s popular male all-rounder. “When Afridi won the match against India in the Asia Cup in February this year she went berserk and celebrated it for several days.”


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very tragic. women can’t even press charges against sexual harassment in pakistan without being humiliated. this why most most of sexual harassment/rape cases aren’t even reported.
her case made the news as she’s famous, so many other girls commit suicide after being raped and humiliated, or sometimes their own family kills them because of the ‘dishonor’

Extremely sad.

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indeed very sad.

i had mentioned that in one of the threads within an hour when it happened.

Dawn News did not report it as suicide on the day she committed suicide. Samaa News had reported earlier in the day but Dawn News kept quiet for more than 12 hours. when they reported her death, they reported as if nothing unusual happened. they reported that she was found in her room dead. the suicide was declared right after she was found dead in the bathroom.

i have no idea why Dawn News kept it a low keyed news.

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May your soul rest in peace, Halima Rafique.

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Maybe because Dawn did not have a confirm news whether it was a suicide. How can you declare that a death is a suicide right after you find the body? No police in the world does that without Autopsy and investigation report. Its obvious that Sama was trying to be the champion of “breaking news”, while Dawn was just doing responsible journalism .

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the family said that…she went in the bathroom and drank acid…you can tell if someone drank acid. it was so obvious. i’ve no idea why they did it.

as far as responsible journalism by Dawn is concerned, i know how responsible they are as i watch all the news channels and have pretty good idea who is who in journalism and how responsible these channels are. Dawn is never behind in ‘breaking news’.

The family said? Don’t tell me that you never heard of the cases were family said that bahu was cooking food and her clothes caught fire, where it was actually saas, devar and husband who did that.
Claims of others don’t shut the case of homicide. Autopsy and proper investigation does.

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This case not only depicts a huge social injustice but also daunting the efforts that have been made in the past to restore the confidence of women to come out and involve in activities other than ghar-dari.
And worsens the impression of country all around as well

BBC News - Family tells of Pakistan teen cricketer’s ‘suicide’ after sex-pest row

Family tells of Pakistan teen cricketer’s ‘suicide’ after sex-pest row

**By M Ilyas Khan
**BBC News, Islamabad

Haleema Rafiq was one of five female cricketers who appeared on the TV show last year
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The family of a teenage female Pakistani cricketer who accused cricket board officials of sexual harassment last year has told how she took her own life.
Relatives say Haleema Rafiq, 17, drank acid soon after finding out that she had been summoned by a court in a defamation suit filed by one of the board officials.
Ms Rafiq was one of five female cricketers from Multan who said in a television show in June last year that the chairman of Multan Cricket Club (MCC), Maulvi Sultan Alam, and a team selector, Mohammad Javed, had demanded sexual favours in return for putting them on the regional teams or recommending them for the national team.
Both the officials, who appeared on the same show, denied the allegations and countered by accusing the women of indulging in immoral activities.
A Pakistan Cricket Board (PCB) inquiry found there was no evidence to support the women’s claims.

She started to feel sick when we received a notice on Friday from Mr Alam’s lawyer, asking her to explain her position regarding her allegations”

Rashid Latif, Haleema Rafiq’s cousin and brother-in-law

It slapped fines and a nine-month ban on all five for breach of discipline and for bringing women’s cricket into disrepute.
However, given the seriousness of the charges and the storm they had kicked up in the media, the PCB also placed the MCC under observation for a year.
Attempts by the BBC to contact Mr Alam have been unsuccessful.
The ban on the women ended in April and all returned to the game, except Ms Rafiq.
“She did not look like someone who would have cricketing ambitions - she was more like a schoolgirl out to have fun,” says Mohammad Nadeem Qaisar, a Multan-based journalist who covers sports for Pakistan’s largest newspaper, Jang.
“Also, I think that even though she appeared on that TV show last year, she was unnerved by the events that followed. That’s probably why she chose to stay away from the PCB inquiry.”

It is alleged that sexual harassment in women’s cricket is a major impediment in bringing the best players forward
Members of her family say that fear gripped her during the past few days of her life, especially when MCC chairman Mr Alam took out a 200m rupee ($2m; £1.2m) defamation suit against the five women and two officials of Express TV, which had aired the show.
“She started to feel sick when we received a notice on Friday from Mr Alam’s lawyer, asking her to explain her position regarding her allegations,” says Rashid Latif, Ms Rafiq’s cousin and brother-in-law.
The family consulted a lawyer who told her not to worry as such notices were just a matter of routine and could be taken care of.
“The very next day there was a court hearing in which the judge issued notices to all the respondents to appear in the court,” Mr Latif said.
“Haleema’s brother read the news in Sunday’s paper and told the family. That was the last straw.”
According to the family, around late afternoon on Sunday, Haleema went into the bathroom and drank a whole bottle of drain-cleaner.
They say they took her to Multan’s largest hospital twice that day. On the first occasion she was given a stomach wash and sent home, but her condition worsened. The family took her to hospital again but she died on the way.
However, the head of emergency services at Nishtar Hospital, Dr Pervez Haider, contradicted this view.
“She was brought in at 10pm on the night of 13 July, she was already dead. They probably took her to some other hospital the first time,” he said.

With Haleema’s death, women’s cricket in Multan is likely to suffer a major setback”

Mohammad Nadeem Qaisar, journalist
A police officer said the family had not reported Ms Rafiq’s death as a case of suicide. Mr Latif said they did not want to report the matter to the police because they did not want the legal complications, nor any post-mortem surgery.
Suicide is illegal in Pakistan.

‘Murky world’"

We were not informed of the incident, and no autopsy was performed," police official Nadeem Mujtaba told the BBC.
“We don’t intend to proceed in the case for now, but are consulting our legal department for action if it becomes necessary.”
Rishad Mehmood, the sports editor of Pakistan’s largest English language newspaper, Dawn, says that in his view Ms Rafiq appears to have been caught in the “murky world” of women’s sports where claims of sexual harassment go hand in hand with fierce competition among players to land a place on a team.
“Getting selected on a team means a lucrative job in one of the sponsoring departments, occasional prizes and domestic as well as international travel,” he says.
“There have been a couple of incidents in the past when cricket officials, both men and women, have been suspended for alleged sexual misconduct, or players have used sexual favours to ensure they get a place on the team.”
The episode hurt women’s cricket in Multan, one of the sport’s more fertile catchment areas across Pakistan.
“Last autumn, the district board had to ignore its standards in order to recruit enough girls for the team because there were widespread misgivings,” said Mr Qaisar.
Over the next few months the board worked hard to restore its image and was able to recruit a decent team for the springtime inter-district senior girls’ competition.
“With Haleema’s death, women’s cricket in Multan is likely to suffer a major setback,” Mr Qaisar added.


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I’m surprised that those accused are still alive, someone hasn’t gotten revenge on them already.
Those *******s need to be hung in public, perhaps with their whole families.

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Why promote violence and crime in the name of revenge?

No one really knows what happened in this tragic event. Contradictory information so far.

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Of course some people won’t believe that this happens…because certainly corruption and sexual harrassment and abuse is simply UNHEARD of in Pakistan.

It’s propaganda. all lies, right?

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It is ironic that violence is being denounced here. While it was proposed a solution wrt certain segment of society just because of their orientation. Convoluted logic at best.