Completely agree. In a marriage two people come together from different backgrounds, and unless BOTH make compromises and adapt to each other’s habits, that marriage won’t be successful. But one thing I’ve learnt is that it just so happens that due to the influence the MIL and SIL have on the husband, the wife generally tends to make more sacrifices in the beginning. I think the change in the husband slowly happens with time and often without him realising it. Although I’ve heard that you can’t change a man… lol don’t have enough experience yet to know if that’s true!