Re: An interesting dilemma
There is something wrong here. She is hiding her friendship with the other guy means its more than a simple friendship. Otherwise why would someone try to hide it and make it like a mystery.
I guess, your freind Paddy needs to have a serious and straight forward discussion with her. Since they're in a relationship, he has every right of making sure that nothing wrong is going on in this situation.
People who feel guilty try to hide, others really don't care because for them its normal.