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seriously deluded wierdo - make astaghfar, its not too late.
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Guys like you give…guys.. a bad name. 
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U-K-P.
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Hai Allah 
5 saal mein itna kuch jaan liya…
who said she wanted to see you more often? she didnt say it, did she? and you are completely clueless (as per your own words).
Hai Allaahhhh munna gapplooo… masoom bachaa… Hai Allaahhh
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^ 
Look, Zalim buddha, your post indicates you are actually thinking of beginning a relationship with her. You said you’re wondering if she’s giving you clues. If she is a friend, and that’s what the two of you have kept it at, then why are you all of a sudden wondering what she means by particular statements?
Everything she said, a friend can say to another friend. I’ve always asked my guy friends how well they know me and we always take time aside to assess our friendships, and how much we can trust each other as friends. One has a girlfriend, and she knows it - I’m friends with her as well. In fact, that friend and I have even had discussions on sex and how to control sexual urges as a muslim.
Now, is he sitting there and wondering if I’m hitting on him? No. Becasue he knows where we stand, and he knows the kind of person I am.
So, if you have known her for 5 years, and you’ve kept it at friendship, then why is one of her comments all of a sudden striking you as suggestive of a relationship? Is it she that’s sending out signals, or are you now beginning to think of the option, especially since you’re not fully happy with your own relationship?
Oh and please. If you’re talking about the beautiful Karachi weather, you are totally love-struck.
How about you broach the issue with your friend and see what she says? And then discuss what’s happened with your wife, and see what she thinks.
You never know. Slots 2, 3, and 4 are still open. Besides, cheaters like you deserve more than one wife. Pagal kar ke rakh daingi.
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LOL
as far as i remember he mentioned his wife’s mood swings some time back in a thread. imagine him with two of them
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hain.. then why are u talking about trying to have an "relationship" with her?
lame justifications.. if u were just "friends" u wud've invited her to ur house instead of having coffee at some hotel chori chupay. that just shows u wanted to hide "this" from ur wife. hence u are cheating.
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Zalim- regardless how you justify yourself to others................you know it that you are lying to yourself and Allah!
Khud-Farebi ka shikaar ho tum. Once a man is married the only woman he should be taking out for dinner, tea, whatever is his wife...................in a beautiful karachi weather. Samjhe tum.
I hate men like you who use and abuse women. And if your wife knows of your harkatain then you should go discuss your situation with her not telling us that you are an inch away from courting this woman.
Agar mei tumhari biwi ki jaga hoti tau tumhari tangain taur daiti aur tumhari ankhain nikaal kar bahir rakh daiti.
Now, If you find all that i have written disrespectful, my apologies.....but you will only get disrespect for disrespectful behavior of yours.
May Allah help you in selecting the right path.
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Zalim Wadera, I truly feel very sorry for your wife. What you have been doing to her is totally unfair.
I believe you said the lady that you currently are friends with has known about your marriage and you even invited her to your wedding, which she refused to attend. Why did you then in the first place get married to her instead of the woman you are currently married to right now?
If there is one person that I feel bad for is your current wife. You should really apologize to her as well as to Allah (SWT).
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zaalim the asswipe needs a good ass kicking. Chootiya like this needs to be hunged by their balls. Look man, if you are not happy with your present wife, than you have every right to pursue your happiness. But for god's sake, tell her everything and give her a divorce. These types of men gives us all a bad name.
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hey maybe that explains your wife's mood swings. :o
I should change my nick to Sherlock.
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How would you feel if your wife went out with some guy like that and wondered if he loved her or not? Said " i am an inch away from courting a relationship"?
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Zalim, 5 years of friendship are precious, very precious, no matter what gender your friend is of.
As your friend happens to be of the opposite sex it might be tempting sometimes to wonder if there is more than friendship...please think very seriously before moving on and talking about your (supposed) feelings with her as it could destroy all the faith she has in you as a FRIEND, no more.
I know what I am talking about as my best friend is a male (we have known each other for 7 years), and the basement of our reliationship is a "no physical attraction" rule system we elaborated during these years as we became adults...
Considering you are already maried, as long as Islam allow men to have up to 4 wives, if your wife doesn't mind and IF this friend loves you actually, then you could marry her....but look there was two "if" in that sentence....so you have to think deeeeeeply Zalim Wadera.
hope this will help you.
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^ I would not initiate it, rest assured. I had thought I might ask her but I have changed my opinion. We did talk afterwards but it was not focussed on it, just the routine things we talk about.
I know what friendship means. BTW Thanks very much for your advice. Much appreciated.
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She didnt mean anything. I was at fault, first to misread into the gesture, second to share it here.
Generally speaking, I am really ashamed of opening this thread and sharing with you of what came in my mind then.
God bless you all for being kind to me.
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Moderators, May I request to remove this thread? Please do.
Thanks.