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Hmmm...
Who is the director of this movie?
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^ Syed Noor.
I wonder if it could be titled 'sach wala pehla pehla pyaar'.
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HAHAHAH lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
sorry, i was tryna hold it in. 
so he’s married but then he’s got an internet gf for 5 years? c’mon man i mean even i know better than that by now!
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yo big up homie...life iz continuous improvement...if ya find someone bettah than yo' wife..jet fo' it boy..remember ya gots three mo' shots..respeck..
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Zalim - new id looks better now, don't it??
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He says
"She knows a lot about my life and about my nature but thats because I have told her without mincing any words what I am and what my life is like"
perhaps he told her that he has a wife....
perhaps the said lady doesnt mind....
You dont say whether this was the first meeting, if it isnt its looks like you are inches from courting a relationship with a friend.....
Good Luck whatever you decide to do!
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but U r married 
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Thoroughly enjoyed everybody's views. Thank you.:-)
Here is what I felt reading you:- Everybody took notice of what I said about our friendship and other details and believed it while the expressive statement that she knows me from within is wilfully ignored and not believed. She knows that I am married. I even invited her to my wedding which she declined.
Now the important thing and thats about the hypocricy you girls have. You all assume that I am going to exploit the situation and sleep with her? How easy it is for you girls to believe in this direction and in this direction alone! In 5 years that we have been sharing our thoughts we never ventured into the forbidden area. We were friends and are friends who have lot more to discuss with ease and pleaaure than sex. I certify that majority of you girls are prejudiced mimicks who live in their shells. Your idea of looking at a man-woman relationship is absolutely based on sexism.
For a while when she put that question, I felt as if she loved me and I could be absolutely wrong in it too but her question was tricky and was multi-meaningful and thats what was my dilemma. I said I was confused and could hardly understood what she meant by it. For the time being and it lasted for quite a few hours, I thought I was wilfully not believing that she could have fallen in love with me because we never discussed such things.
So I have been beaten here with the holier-than-me girls here? Am I ashamed of opening this thread? Absolutely not.
Take the dirt of labelling others with menacing words cast off your characters. My wife knows about her too and she has no problems with it. If and God forbid, I fall, I will be guilty. Not now.
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Kindest of all comments less shrouded with labelling. Thank you Aasha.
lussi: Thanks to you too. Just a clarification, I am committed to my spouse. Its been me who is toiling to save the relationship and how honest I am in it, God only knows.
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Zalim - the most i said was now you should look for a new id due to bashing...... I am hurt, no, slayed.
Look, whatever you are trying to justify here is up to you, you are the one that has to live it. But my opinion, take it or leave it is that if you are spending time with another woman, talking and becoming close with another woman, mentally now even considering what she says instead of breaking all ties with her, doing this while being, YES, married, you are cheating. Cheating isn't just physical. You don't have to have sex to cheat.....
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To quote what you wrote.."an inch away from courting a relationship..." and then u go ballistic when we question your motives? What exactly is your dilemma if you are sure you aren't going to cheat on your wife( mentally even).
One more precious quote"Karachi's weather was wonderful today evening, when we met. :-)" Like eww! Aren't you bloody sending signals about how you enjoy being with her. Do not call us names, for it is you who is planning on "courting" a relationship with a woman who is not your wife. And yeah, in many ways than one, it does make us holier than thou's lousy little cheating(contemplating at least) ass.
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Why do you deserve respect?
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"An inch away! "
ROman's lament of life
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Zalim - if you didn't want honest opinions on your "dilema" why post it here in a public forum that you are contemplating cheating on ur wife? Did you think people would get all dreamy and support that?
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Shut up.
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This thread is funny :-D . You guys let Zalim wadera be. He is love struck.
Zalim get divorced and embrace the new chick. Your marriage might be more meaningful with the new chicka. You need to discuss it with your spouse. Apologize to your wife and let her know the situation.