An awkward situation

[zobia]

Re: An awkward situation

@Niksik

So let’s say your daughter gets a proposal from a very close family friend for their son, but you don’t like that guy for your daughter for some reason, not a character issue, but since you know them so well, you’ve seen many weaknesses of that boy. How do you reject it without offending your friend?

this is how my mother did. “thank you for considering our daughter. you guys are great, and may ALLAH SWT grant your son with a good companion. We are still not considering for her at the moment, but nonetheless, thanks a lot. It was really an honour.”

my mom keeps it simple and minimal. in fact aunty jees are always like “inno nay baray achay tareekay say inkaar kia hai”