Re: An awkward situation
Tell them that you need to think about the issue and that it depends upon how your daughter feels…because marriage is an issue that will affect the children more than the parents…as it’s their life. Then you tell them that since you and your husband would allow your children’s decision to be of greater importance…that it’s a possibility that the answer may be a “No” and that whatever the outcome…you hope that it wouldn’t affect the friendship. *So basically you’re telling them it’s something to think about/discuss with your child.
***THEN…you get back to the guy’s parents and let them know that your daughter was flattered and that she has a lot of respect for (the family friends) but she has always seen their son as a brother and respects him as a brother. Then again…you tell the family that you hope the friendship will not be affected…your give some compliments about their son (how wonderful he is)…and wish them the best. Baat khatam.