to reality check.
u dont know what went on between us, you dont have complete knowledge, so you dont know how it feels.
yeh i know its irrational, but then again lot of things in lifer irrational.
so basically you can just f.off
yeh im an uneducated for calling this 'thread' a 'forum', please fire the guys who passed me at school.
Reality check who invited you here anyway. If you dont like me and my topic its logical for you to be somewhere else.
Oh yeah i forgot this is a public thread i cannot deny your rights of bull****in where you please.
My life man, i call her when i want, i call her when i dont want. i can but cnt be bothered to answer and refute rest of your post. And reality, the reality is, people are interested in my thread, people r giving me advice which im appreciating.
u cant do nothing about it.
Im using the letter 'x' to refer to the girl.
To iggy and quiin. Yeh it is weird her giving me her husbands number. She gave me it last year also, saying here speak to my husband, cos i replied ok let me speak to him if he loves me so much, after she said this:
'i always told my my husband abut what a good and sincere friend ur etc and he knows abut u and ur more than welcome to come to my house anytime.'
Which the above rather 'friendly' text of hers as oppososed to the mean ones b4 only came after i eventually threatend to tell and prove to her huby evrything of her past by callin at her house, on which she immditely txted back practically beggin nt to do that, and begged somthin like abut that i misunderstud her b4, she doesnt hate me etc.
I did suspect at the time how she suddenly gave me her hubby's cell. But i called him 2 days later, time when i called him - 3pm his time, said hello dis and that, asked who he is he said hes x's husband, surprisingly he didnt seem to show any awkwardnes a guy calling and asking for his wife... actually he was rather polite, and receptive. I tld him im x's friend can i speak to her, then he got a bit hesitiant, and said shes kind of busy rite now cn u call later. i said ok and shut the fone.
next day i called him again at pak time 6pm. politely did hello and that, then asked if i can speak to 'x'. He got hesitant again, and said right now im not at home, best you would be able to speak to her at 11pm. Then i tried confirming the time, he got more hesitant and recalled to me that actually he has to go on a 'janaza' at 11pm so thats not a good time, then went the best time to spk to her would be sehri (it waz ramzan that time).
So I foned, at sehri, phone rang, nobody picked up, phone again couple of time,s the fone got turned off.
Fone a few times again the days after, it continued to remain 'off'. with the cow saying' 'apka matslooba number is waqt kaam mai nahi hai baher meherbani pir dubara kisi waqt try kijiye'. s**t.
At present im just gauging who this really is. I phoned him last 3 days ago. we didnt speak much, cos i was trying t gauge the whole time if hes the guy i spoke to b4.i cudnt tell 4 sure, but think he was the same guy. i shut it saying sorry maybe there is a misunderstanding he said ok no prob.
Yesterday i phoned her again, she rejected the call twice. I did not call again.
I plan my moves. If he really is her husband, then as i said before i cant tell him anything-maybe shes not as bad as we assumed.
confused. But i will find out who this m.f***er is.
If hes some cosuin or friend of hers she trying to fool me with. shes gna be in deep s**t.
Bottom-line, she no longer wants u.. it's pretty much clear!
Jaanwar..LOL