Re: Ambivalence
knockout_artist,
your correlations are absolutely based on your observation, which i tell you can be very prejudgemental against the better of female medical student from Pakistan.
if anything, this panic and paranoia is in males more than in women.
similarly, please know that some men do heavily, heavily... internalize their childhood experiences. they may claim they dont but they do.
that said, the topic of this thread is ambivalance or confusion
in making up one's mind and sticking to a choice.
ideally an adult must make his / her decision on their own and then bear the
consequences following any choice that they knowingly make.
the projection of own short comings by finding alibis, everytime one makes a choice is a habit of the weakest and the most self harming people.
my posts, please know, never engage discussion on belittling anybody.
the focus is always, a general topic and then discussion around it is supposed to be carried out for discussing and not labeling anyone.
thanks for your perspective sharing.
best,
Dushwari