Re: Ambivalence
best thing to do, is to show by example that somethings are not good. not by giving fatwas, not by disparaging the WHOLE rest of the person's good aspects. just be mindful that all correlations that we deduce may infact be all wrong. there is always one right that will prove all wrongs, wrong. the wording of 'each to own', is in the scripture. a person who is stuck in perfectionist's doublestandards, is miserable. and will remain that way, unless that person realizes that being open minded is not a sin. best, Dushwari
Couldn't agree with you more.
Agree again.
Well we need to expand that one thing a bit more.
If I care for my family 24/7, then one day my brother do some silly I would get very mad at him. He would still know that I care for him more then any thing but its the little thing I am not too comfortable with.
It like a herd of horses. When young ones do silly things(which can eventually harm them in long run), their moms kick them out of the herd for little while.
When young horses get scared and approach their moms back, their moms don't stand facing them As that would be sign of full attention.
Instead they they turn their side on young horses tell them the are still mad.
Like love is still there respect is there but moms do get the job done working on horses psychology.