Re: Am i ungrateful?
Have you ever tried to actually talk to him about how he is making you feel? Does he know that his actions are suffocating you?
If not, you have to communicate with him and tell him how you feel. Plan a meal in a restaurant or something and try to bring the subject up. If in a crowded place he is less likely t "flip out". Start by telling him that you do love him (if you indeed do) and tell him that you appreciate everything he does for you but... and then explain the "but"..
Men are sensitive creatures and can get all defensive and irrational if their ego gets dented or if they feel they are being criticised. Try and get it clear in your head a few days before which specific issues/instances you most want resolving and think about how you can explain this to me. Plan what you're going to say and try and preempt his responses and questions.
I'm sure if he knew where he was going wrong and knew how to fix thinsg, he would in an instant and things would soon enough be better between the two of you..
Communication is the and key and you have to talk to him clamly and patiently to address and resolve these issues...
Good luck to the both of you..!