Re: Am i ungrateful?
Sounds like he’s not giving you space, and sounds like if you asked him for space and tried to have a reasonable discussion, he’d go into PTV-DRAMA mode. Avoid the drama, make some excuse to go visit your parents or take an hour out and go to the gym or get a job or something that will involve you being away from him. You might find him more tolerable the hours you do spend with him then. I wouldn’t address the situation at the moment, because he’s going to get all upset and then there will be more fights.
Also, another trick is to find something he likes to do and send him off on it - like does he like fishing? Suggest he go on a fishing trip with friends, or suggest he go to the masjid and read 5 namazein with the jamaat. That’ll free up a lot of time. 