Im in a relationship that had started of exactly like that his love seemed to be pulling me down i felt i could never be who i am cuz somehow his love was like always around me than i decided to breakout of it and got into an even uglier relationship where the guy dint have any love to offer. In this world to find someone that loved u from all ur heart n soul is hard infact extremely hard.**Today he gives u all his attention n u feel hes pulling u down tom when he gives u none ull feel ur not loves i have been in both situations.Remind urself everyday someone looks at u,someone is there to talk to u who wants to listen to u,there is someone who notices tht u r the best thing in his life thts y he wants to be around u…its perspective! **
I went back to him..ya the same obsessive,possessive boyfriend who i thought dint love but controlled.Being with him for 10years now Mashallah i know there are much worse guys out there & if someone loves u more than them self its not obsessive…different ppl show love different ways…embrace it & njoy tht someone wants u all the time! there can be worse scenarios trust me…its just the matter of perspective!
Hope this helps 