Am I the only one who is shocked by how obsessive wedding planning has become?

i agree with this post but i think im gonna be as bad as anyone when it comes to my wedding. like i undersatnd how obsessive people become over every little detail cause ive been involved in loads of weddings but when you see the end result its just so amazing. its supposed to be the happiest day of your life, so why not make it as special as possibe? the obsession lasts what 6months-1 year but atleast your day is perfect. youre gonna tell your kids/grandkids/your grandkids kids about this day so why not make it just magical???
money comes and goes but this is a once in a lifetime oppurtuinity (obv not if u get divorced but u knw what i mean...