Re: Am I taking a really extreme step?
Guys take it easy. Let me make some clarifications. I have not filed any divorce papers. I said that I have filled in papers for legal separation and obviously that is in the spur of the moment being angry. I have not filed ANY papers leave alone divorce. If I want to end the relationship I would have filed divorce papers not just thought of separation.
Secondly, I have not insulted her in front of anybody, friends, family or anybody who knows both of us. Venting out on the damn forum means nothing to her. Neither she knows anybody here nor anybody from here knows her. She doesn't even know what Gupshup is. So I don't think it should be considered insulting her. If I had called her family up or any other friends and had talked about it all then that would have considered insulting.
Why I mentioned money part is that she never had to ask for money before. I only emphasized on that part was to show that she is totally independent money wise. She did not ask me any permission if she could go to Pakistan. In fact I found it weired when she said that she had to think if I could afford her ticket or not. The whole point id that she can but 50 tickets with the money she has in her personal bank account even without me knowing. So she did not ask me if she could have money. The issue is that I wanted her to discuss about the timings when to go or come back. Also she did not ask me if I also wanted to go along.
PyariCgudyi, please come out of your "A pigeon hole" and think with a bit broader mind.