am i right to be annoyed?

[redvelvet]

Re: am i right to be annoyed?

@BellaShabba

its not about being a months difference.. its the fact he said take it or leave it, which annoyed me,

Then talk to him about the “take it or leave it” comment. Explain to him that ultimatums like that where the only other option is to end the relationship are not healthy…it also reflects a need for control…and that’s not how you’d want your marriage to be…to be in that delicate of a state. You have to talk to him about it at some point.