Re: am i right to be annoyed?
yeh i agree, and i am going to talk to him about it i just needed to get away if that makes sense as i didnt want to say anything in anger, he probably doesnt realise what hes said is wrong but he needs to appreciate that it has to be a JOINT decision, not just his, or mine, my mums pretty cool and to make it fair i did suggest wel just get it over and done with in november as the kids will be off for half term school hols, and my sister is due to leave for NY for her placement in december so its like im trying to make everyone happy lol, so his ultimatums are not really appreciated and hence i got annoyed with him sigh