Sweet Tempe5t, I am very much the type to get emotionally attached but honestly I got attached to people since I was 15 and i’ve gotten hurt so many times, either by ones that married others when I was in love with them, or they were unfaithful, or they were never attracted to me so i’ve trained myself to be a heartbreak warrior by now. I will take your advice the advice of others here in the thread and just move on and leave it to Allah and qismat to decide if he is for me.