Re: Am I making a mistake?
?? she’s been with the guy for 5 years, this isnt an arranged marriage type of situation where she doesn’t know the guy that well..that’s a long time to judge someone’s character and personality, now comes the time to actually commit and she’s freaking out and having doubts (where were the doubts the last 5 years..), if she still doesn’t know the guy’s character then thats on her for wasting his time and her own time if she is just going to have doubts every time she faces bumps in the road
OP, you’ve been with him for this long, you likely know him the best out of anyone, as long as he’s never physically or constantly verbally abused you in the past 5 years then apni relationship ko nibhao..the grass is NOT greener on the other side, its going to be EXTREMELY difficult at times, you two will have heated arguments and fights, both of you will have to adjust A LOT after marriage until you figure out what works between you two–this is NORMAL.