There’s a time when we all (well at least I did) try to be miss-two-goody-shoes.. trying to please evry1.. secretly hoping I am declared the best-person-of-the-year award..yawn.. being good to evry1..doing stuff that pleased ‘others’ regardless of whether I wanted to do that or not…….yadda yadda yaddaa…
Gosh.. am I grateful or am I grateful !! to be over with that b4 it was too late..U just can’t please every1 all of the time .. hell gimme a break.. YES, it feels good to be known as a nice person but it SUCKS, meanwhile, not to have a life!.. why let others steer ur life..they dun let u take control of theirs ..or do they?
I do now wat pleases ME.. can’t worry too much..can’t be too careful about evry step that I take.. did I do/say something u dint like? Well, sorry.
Don’t expect any ‘make-ups’ from me.. hmm wait..I’d rather not even apologize..takin my sorry back..heeheehee
This is sometimes referred to as playing the "martyr". Like a person who cant say no to people and always tries to please them. To some it may not be perceived as being selfish but in a way it is, as you have stated that compliments are received and other personal "benefits" attained.
Anyway, I fall in and out of this all the time. I think we should try to be nice with others, but I think we must also realize that we cant ever please everyone, and set some limits for ourselves. smile
Learn to love yourself, then learn to love one-another
perhaps if u tried to please ppl with good manners and appreciable moral values it might help…
not everyone is pleased with a lustful look and even if, not for long…
is soo darn “lustful” as you put it why not ask admin to take it off.
…so far you seem to be the only one who has “complained” about my “LUST” as you put it…remember he who passes judgement on his fellow man will undergo a harsher judgement by GOD!!!
You have fun…I have fun… but before tellin someone off about their manners it’s good to have a look at oneself first.
I’m sorry you take it all very seriously… I come here to have fun…no seriousness… so stop burtsing my bubble!
And by the way is this your way of gettin attention from me…coz if it is…it’s working baby